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Some of the boys are harder to reach. They have incarcerated parents;
they live with aunts and grandmothers; they harbor violent streaks.
Sometimes their wild behavior sets off chain reactions, sending
their peers into rule-flouting bedlam.
In Walters’ humanities class one day, the students huddle
and write skits using a single type of sentence. The imperative
group capitalizes on Kyle’s comic timing. Their dialogue
is a succession of rapid-fire commands shouted by pint-size soldiers: “Get
down! Give me twenty-five crunches!” “You give me twenty
crunches!” But in the interrogative group, twelve-year-old
Lawrence sits sullenly. He’s a football enthusiast with a
build to match, and when he feels cocky he can put on the dance
moves. But in the classroom his eyes often look glazed and bloodshot.
Walters walks over to Lawrence as the bell rings. “You have
to participate,” she says quietly. “It’s not
always going to go the way Lawrence wants it to go. It’s
called ‘go with the flow.’ ” The young man packs
his books silently. “Lawrence, don’t let this affect
the rest of your day,” the teacher says. “To me, it’s
forgotten.”
Lawrence’s struggles with impulse control are legendary among
his teachers. He pushes his way into lines. He takes forever to
copy down assignments. He cuts up, then dozes off. But he also
asks teachers to write messages to his aunt when he behaves well.
And he takes pride in his pressed shirt and tie. “I want
to be a gentleman,” he says. That presto-chango personality
mystifies his teachers. “How do you go from nice to thug?” asks
Walters. “He doesn’t know where his place is.”
Until he was seven, Lawrence had little guidance about his place.
After his father died in a car accident, Lawrence’s mother
went into a protracted decline. “She lived a really rocky
life,” says his aunt. “He would have to provide meals
for himself. He would go to the corner store and buy candy and
honey buns.” By the time Lawrence came to live with his aunt
and uncle, he was malnourished and had dental problems. He had
also failed kindergarten and learned to stuff away his feelings,
she says.
“He has had so many disadvantages in this short life of his—I
can’t even imagine what he’s going through emotionally,” adds
the aunt, a cancer survivor who also suffers from diabetes and
narcolepsy. “Because I have some illness and I’m a
woman, he doesn’t tell me the things that worry him. He says, ‘I’m
all right, auntie, I’m okay.’” Recently Lawrence’s
grandfather died, and another uncle perished in a car wreck. Invited
to the funeral, “he said he couldn’t take it,” recalls
his aunt. “He couldn’t take one more death.”
DNS’s admissions committee split over Lawrence. The boy didn’t
help matters when he got into a fight during a summer transition
program. Afterward, “I talked to Mr. Weaver,” says
his aunt. “I didn’t beg him, but I told him, ‘Lawrence
needs this program.’” By then, Weaver had taken a liking
to the boy and believed his potential could be coaxed out by the
right educators. “There’s so much about Lawrence that I could just see. I wanted him so badly,” Weaver says. “If
he wasn’t with us, he’d probably fall apart.” Now,
Lawrence and his aunt ride the city bus forty-five minutes to school.
She drops him off at 7:45, then walks the five miles home.
The fifth anniversary of September 11 falls on a Monday, the day
DNS holds its weekly chapel service. This week’s gathering
features a skit written by Fred Passmore, a radio evangelist who
runs a website called christianskitscripts.com. It portrays two
co-workers at New York’s Twin Towers. Mike, a Christian,
has just been fired, but he knows God has a plan for him. As he
packs his belongings, he begs Jeff to give up womanizing and accept
Christ. “Sometimes hell comes right up behind you, out of
the blue, and swallows you down without warning,” he says.
Jeff doesn’t listen. As the skit ends, we learn he has engineered
his friend’s dismissal for his own gain. “Word of my
promotion is already spreading like wildfire through the Trade
Center,” he says, clapping with glee. “September 11,
2001, is definitely going to be a day to remember!”
The moral is clear: The nonbeliever is doomed to fiery destruction
and damnation. It’s a message DNS students have heard more
than once.
DNS promotes itself as rigorously nonsectarian. “We are not
a religious school. We’re faith based,” founder Moylan
says at a fundraising lunch. “On a weekly basis, we have
people of every religious diversity come to this school so the
boys are exposed to every imaginable religion.” In reality,
the school’s spiritual tone has been set by the beliefs of
its staff. Weaver belongs to the United Pentecostal Church and
has taken students to Sunday worship services. Many of the instructors
attend evangelical churches. One notable exception is Latin and
religion teacher Nathan Eubank, M.T.S. ’05, a self-described “Catholic-sympathizing
Presbyterian” whose office door carries a sign with the words, “When
Jesus said, ‘Love your neighbors,’ I think he probably
meant, ‘Don’t kill them.’”
DNS’s curriculum features two years of Bible studies, followed
by a year of world religion. In addition, science teacher Dan Vannelle
teaches the Old Testament account of creation alongside Darwinian
evolution, and holds students responsible for mastering both. “At
some point, I tell them what I believe: the Biblical account,” says
Vannelle, a retired dentist. “I couldn’t do that in
a public school. I’m grateful.”
Parents and guardians say they share that gratitude. Without religious
instruction, DNS “would serve no purpose,” says Lawrence’s
aunt. “Those are the tools that you need for life. That’s
what helps keep things in perspective for the young men.” Under
Weaver’s tutelage, she notes, Lawrence was baptized at United
Pentecostal Church.
The mother of thirteen-year-old Kenneth, also a Pentecostal, finds
DNS’s approach refreshing. In the public schools, she says, “you
can talk about Allah. You can talk about Buddha. But when it comes
to Christianity, they talk about the Dark Ages and don’t
talk about any of the positive things Christianity has done.” She’s
particularly angry that public schools teach “the theology
of evolution, and don’t even consider creationism as a valid
point.”
For her, it’s important that Kenneth’s education echo
his religious training at home. “I talk to him about consequences
of actions like fornication,” she says. “Here, it’s
reinforced, and to me that’s important—the relationship
with God. Here, you don’t separate one from the other. It’s
all together.”
By mid-trimester, everyone’s faith has been challenged by
a series of diffic ult events. First, a promising sixth-grader transfers
to public school without explanation. “That is a blow to
us—to lose one too early,” Weaver tells the boys. “I
think this is a decision he may regret. Before you make wrong decisions,
I want you to be prayerful about them.” At DNS, public schools
are sometimes described as gang-ridden institutions where black
and Latino males can lose their way.
Then, one Monday, Weaver doesn’t show up. Over the weekend,
he had flipped over a church bus with nineteen children aboard,
including Lawrence. None of the kids was seriously hurt, but Weaver
landed in the hospital with a broken leg and other injuries. He
will not return for the rest of the trimester. Lawrence, who has
lost two adults to car accidents, is deeply shaken. “It felt
like some kind of dream,” he would later recall. “The
bus could have caught on fire. But God put his hands on us and
helped us.”
For many DNS students, disaster has been a regular part of growing
up. Perhaps that’s why many of the questions in astronomy
class concern the end of the world. “If the sun becomes a
white dwarf, won’t all of life on Earth die?” Kyle
asks one afternoon. Vannelle assures him that the end is billions
of years off.
“What if it was tomorrow?” Kyle persists.
For the faculty members, there are more immediate concerns. At
mid-trimester, Kyle’s literacy skills have barely budged,
and Lawrence continues to misbehave. Both boys are failing multiple
classes. Says Lawrence’s aunt, “He is very tearful.
He’s even depressed. He knows that he has disappointed me
and himself.” Along with nine others, Lawrence has landed
on academic probation, with the prospect that he’ll be expelled
if he doesn’t shape up in the long run. “I’m
stressed,” he says. “I’m trying to figure out
how I’m going to get my grades up and stop being bad.”
Still, some students are prospering. Several, including Reginald,
are pulling A’s and B’s. In Eubank’s Latin class,
boys who struggle with English grammar are mastering the nominative,
accusative, and genitive noun cases. Twelve-year-old Travis, whose
drug-using mother abandoned him to his grandmother, has a mischievous
streak that often lands him in trouble. But in Eubank’s class,
he pluralizes amica laudat to amicae laudant and often beats more
studious boys during translation contests. “Latin is important
because the structure of the language is very different from English,” says
Eubank. “It requires students to understand how they make
meaning.” That in turn sharpens their analytical thinking.
What’s more, Eubank says, Latin’s exoticness gets kids
excited about learning—“and that can help them think
of themselves as young scholars.”
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